Agreed, but the alternative is people endlessly making pointless posts which not only bumps the thread, but also creates notifications and buries all the content under useless posts.
There should be another system, one for posts, and one for comments maybe? 1 shows newest posts and thats all, and 1 shows just comments on specific posts that are new. and you can turn it off at will incase you ONLY want to see new posts.
And to make this relevant, I really wish she'd keep pushing the bar. There was a good bit of time where she was pushing the bar further on what she's comfortable with. I think she's fucking gorgeous and would love to see more of her more often.